OBSESSION
Love or obsession?!
For someone to be in a committed relationship it is important for both the people to fall in love with each other. Love basically is a chemical reaction. When you look at someone you find attractive, you tend to think about them more and more. There is an increase in the level of dopamine as a result of an increase in Adrenaline levels. As you think about that person and you keep thinking, you fall in love more and more.
When One-sided love turns into obsession
For someone to be in a committed relationship it is important for both the people to fall in love with each other. Love basically is a chemical reaction. When you look at someone you find attractive, you tend to think about them more and more. There is an increase in the level of dopamine as a result of an increase in Adrenaline levels. As you think about that person and you keep thinking, you fall in love more and more.
Then comes a twist. It is not necessary that both of you fall in love with each other. But what if the other person does not fall in love with you and reciprocate the love equally? You will be frustrated or anxious and depressed at the same time. See what love does!
The one thing about love is you can fall in love with someone but so can they. And to fall in love with someone and love someone so deeply who does not love you back is the worst heartbreak you can give to yourself. It does not matter to me if you tell me that I am talking negatively but this is the truth of life. This is a situation where you try to explain to people how you feel but they will never understand your situation.
It is so crazy that we fall in love with a person just by getting lost in their beautiful eyes but they crave for a beautiful face and body. People are concerned about aesthetics and appearances. They like fame, popularity, money and prosperity. Who cares about a beautiful heart? Does it even matter if you are in vain?
Obsession:
When love turns into obsession, it will make a person insane. A person who falls in love and does not receive it back will find ways to make another person fall in love with them. It is not something bad to try it but if it is something out of limit, then it can ruin someone’s mental peace or maybe someone’s life in some cases.
The obsessed person will have control issues and will try to control the person they love and also will try to control the situation. However I think that when you are not able to control your own feelings and yourself, how will you control the other person, situation and your own life. Some people also try to cast spells and try black magic, which according to me is a very nasty way to control someone.
I want to know that even if you pursue that person by using such nasty ways, will that person love you exactly like the way you want them to? And if that person does not love you like that you will try to harm and torture that person in every way possible. So, is that love? Or Obsession? That is insanity. It is a control issue and you will look like a control freak. Your anger and controlling issues will harm you eventually.
Author’s note:
No matter how you look and how you are, rich or poor, Confident or timid, fast or slow, intelligent or not so intelligent, dark or fair, chubby or lean, young or old, man or woman. “Do not let people’s judgement affect you!”.The perfect person will come in your life at the perfect timing and love you in an unimaginable way. You can wear anything except loads of people’s opinions and judgements. Let go of all the anger, controlling and other issues. Just love yourself, know your worth and just concentrate on yourself.
Find peace within yourself!
