COMPARISON

Comparison is the thief of joy. As this world is changing, I hope that people are also changing and many of them stopped comparing their children to other children. But even now many of them do it. Remember, competition is totally different from comparison. Comparing your child to others will not make him/her better, in fact, it will make them the worst. They will stop trying to make an effort to be successful and also to make you happy. They will feel discouraged. 

Stop comparing and start encouraging and try to push them and tell them that they are good enough to do anything in life. 

This is for people who compare their own selves to others. They cannot be you and you cannot be them. Just be who you are! When you compare yourself to others, you will never be satisfied in life…

When I was in my worst condition, I was on my death bed, my sister told me that God made all of us with his own hands. We all are different, we are unique. We all are worthy of being loved. God loves us. No human is as amazing as you are. If you doubt yourself, your beauty, or your worth, it is equal to doubting God’s creation.” You are God’s creation”. And that hit me hard. 

Success and failure are just a part of your life. 

AUTHOR’S NOTE:

Try to improve yourself, if you are not happy with what you are doing right now but remember not to compare yourself with others. Every single person has their own different capability. 

Maintain a diary and write down all your insecurities, what makes you feel bad? What makes you think that you are not fitting in? You don’t have to fit in!!! What do you what to become or achieve in life? What can you do to make yourself feel good and satisfied? 

You will achieve all your goals and you will be happy forever….

Love yourself and find peace within yourself.